What is a soulmate? The concept of the “soulmate” has made man search for that match for centuries. A soulmate is another person whom you are destined to be one with. This person is your one true match, your destiny and the love of your life.
Imagine someone who just gets you and understands you and everything that you do. They complete your sentences and they are always there when you need them. They are reliable and dependable. You find them both sexy and someone you can just get down and hang out with. Now that is someone who can be your souldmate.
Your soulmate is the person that completes you and fulfills your longing for love. And if you are lucky enough to have found them, you know that you just click together and that no matter what life throws at you, together, you can take it.
But how do you know that someone is your soulmate or just someone who is passing through your life?
Here are ten signs that a person is your soulmate
1. Your soulmate makes you feel safe when you are around them
You know that feeling when you’re tired and all you want to do is go home. And when you finally get home, you feel better, that’s the same feeling you get when you meet your soulmate. You feel safe and at peace around them. When you encounter a stressful situation, just telling them about it makes things feel better.
They surround you with joy, peace, love and encouragement that no matter what life brings, you feel good and strong. And even in times that you have fights with one another, you know that if something falls down, you can count on them to take care of you and listen to you no matter what.
2. They make you feel joyful and not just happy.
Have you ever woke up on Christmas morning with the smell of cookies around your house and you’re about to open a pile of presents? Do you know that feeling? Well that’s the same feeling you get when you are around your soulmate.
They make you light up when they walk into the room. They make you laugh even if you’ve known each other for ages. Or they make you smile even if you’ve just met. They make you feel happy, very very happy.
3. You understand each other as no one else does
We all have our quirks. We all have a bit of nuttiness here and there that others may not get. But your soulmate, he or she gets that. He gets your love for stuffed toys even if you are in your thirties. She gets why you like collecting stamps. You understands what makes you, you, and loves you more for that.
And even though they try to push you to be better at times, your soulmate will always find joy in the person who you truly are. He understands your uniqueness and loves you for that.
4. You compliment each other
Yes, both of you are unique, but your uniqueness compliments each other’s. You balance each other out. You have many similarities but you also are like two pieces of a puzzle that make each other whole when together. His strengths helps you overcome your weaknesses and vice versa. Some of your traits may be opposite but they do mesh well to make great harmony between the two of you.
5. There is this undeniable connection
Your soulmate and you will have a very strong connection. It’s like a magnet pulling you together. You feel compelled to be together. If you are already a couple, you feel a strong bond that no one else can break no matter what happens. If you just met, you keep on stumbling into each other and keep on feeling this pull towards each other.
You are drawn to him or her. Just talking to this person excites you no matter how long you’ve known each other. If you’ve just met, you feel a click and a spark between the two of you.
6. Your goals and dreams are in line with each other’s
When a person is your soulmate, he or she will likely get what your aspirations are. You have the same dreams and see the future the same way. You can dream together without clashing and crashing. You can talk about the future with confidence with them.
You see the future with the same outlook and desire. Your plans and hope align and you see each other growing old together and growing in life and spirit too.
7. Your beliefs and values mesh together.
It does not matter even if you come from different backgrounds, religions, and families, your philosophies and morals jive together. What you hold sacred and true goes well with him or her. Your values about life mesh with each other’s.
You normally have the same morals and values. Your thoughts don’t go against each other especially about the important things in life like religion, philosophy, politics, or love or if you differ, you can respect each other’s beliefs without any upheavals.
8. You trust them
For some reason, your soulmate is someone you can truly trust with your heart and soul. You know that no matter where they go, they will always choose you. You can feel that you belong with each other. And that no matter what comes between you, you will always be together.
You can tell them your deep dark secrets and it won’t scare them away. You can have them in your good times and your bad times and they will always be there. They will be there for you come rain or shine no matter what. You can trust them with everything about you and they will love you for it. And that is how you know they are your soulmate
9. You love the way they smell.
Our olfactory sense is our most primitive sense out of all our senses. And it is linked with emotions and feelings. Our sense of smell does not lie to us, and thus when we truly feel drawn to someone, we just love the way they smell like. It does not matter if they are sweaty, we still get high on the way they smell.
Science tells us that when we love someone or when we feel safe with a person, we love the way they smell. You will know if someone is meant to be your destiny when you smell them and then you just feel happy and at peace. You may take a whiff of their perfume and you just feel drawn to them or when you get near them, you know their scent smells safe and good.
10. There is no one else like them
In all our lives, in everywhere we go, this person is unique. No one else is like them. They radiate this magnetic pull towards us and we feel compelled to be with them. We feel a very strong bond that we have never felt from any other person in our life, be it our friends, or even our family.
They are just different from all the people you have dated. You feel like there is no one else like them and that in all your life, in all your search for love,they are the one.
They complete us; like a piece of a puzzle that just fits perfectly with each other.
Finding Your Soulmate
If you have found your soulmate, then congratulations! You are very lucky. However, if you haven’t found the one yet, then don’t lose hope. He or she is out there. You will find him or her eventually.
Life may surprise you with that love you are looking for and you may find the joy and happiness of having that special person in your life. And then if you’re really lucky, you may end up spending the rest of your life with them, have breakfast with them every morning and spend cold night hugging them under the covers.
On the other hand, if you are still waiting for them. Just be patient. You will find them. The universe intends for you to be happy. You will be with your soulmate eventually.
Do not try to search for him or her, life will lead you to each other in the right time and in the right place. All you need to do is be there.
You can also manifest the love of your life by believing that you will find him and affirming that you are destined to find him or her.
You can look around among the people that surround you. You can travel the world. You just be waiting for the train and bump into him or her. He or she will be there.
You can pray to find him, or ask a psychic to look into your future to see when he or she is coming. Be patient, because when you find your soulmate, you will know it!
I hope you find that special person and find love and joy in your life. Blessings!