The stars may play a role on how we fall in love and how each and every one of us go through the relationships. I think our zodiac signs create patterns in our behaviors that affect how we deal with love, lust and life. Well for me and my past flames some of it fizzled out because maybe our signs did not match but as I did check out their signs, I found out that there seems to be a pattern on how guys (and girls) go through relationships and breakups.
Aries – Aries people get easily bored. They want a go-go-go kind of relationship which keeps them on their toes. They usually get bored easily. If they think that the relationship is not sizzling enough, they will leave and run. They like hot steamy sex all the time.
When an Aries goes through a breakup, he or she may either be a total nut-job or would just do the opposite and just ditch every thought of you. Since Aries can be a bit crazy when their heart is broken you must be wary on how to deal with this sort of break-up. Arieses can also pick themselves up easily so even if they turn mental for a moment they will catch themselves and be back into the dating scene in no time. On the other hand they may also try to play the cool card and just forget that you ever met them.
Taurus – Taurus may have a difficulty moving on. On the other hand once they say they’re done they won’t look back anymore. They may feel so broken after a falling out with someone. They have mixed emotions of anger, depression, grief and hate, yet deep down they still hope for reconciliation. They normally think of the good times and how good the person is and may not recognize that someone may be bad for them. But once a Taurus lets go of his or her bull headedness he will totally find peace and solace and tell him or herself that it is time to ditch the loser.
Tauruses may need a bit of time to detach or heal. If you are a Taurus try to avoid stalking your ex on FB or Twitter.
Gemini – Geminis are people who can just seem to be happy in the relationship but suddenly split up. They have fun pe*rsonalities but they can hide their dissatisfaction by showing their smiling faces. They can bolt fast if they feel that the relationship is so full of s**t. They have Plan Bs if in case one relationship falls apart they can find a new flame or devote themselves into their careers.
Cancer – People who are born under the Crab sign are loving and sensitive. They need to be showered with love. If a Cancerean feels that the love is inadequate they may become overly jealous or may resort to emotionally hurting their partner by nagging and blackmail. They sometimes tend to be too loving and devoted to the point of clinginess. On the other hand, a Cancer can also go astray to find the love they long for. Sometimes when the partner leaves them, it takes some time for the reality to sink in.
Leo – Leos are headstrong and can be divas at times. Male Leos tend to think too highly of themselves in terms of relationships. There are times they feel the need to prove that their partner is wrong and feels that the partner has the one to apologize first. When their beaus leave them they feel that eventually these people will go back because they are just too important to the partner. They can at times throw hissy fits of frustration. Leos need to allow themselves to co-exist with other people and must learn to compromise in order to achieve a happy and loving relationship.
Virgo – The people born under the sign of the Virgin are down to earth and practical. They want to cut their losses short early in the relationship if it brings more losses than gains. On the other hand if the Virgo has invested a lot of emotion, time and money into the relationship they will try to keep the relationship intact at all costs. They can be too rooted to the union that they may not know how to detach anymore. Their earthly aspect helps them into balancing family and gives most importance to marriage, children and unity. If a Virgo sees that a break up is inevitable they try hard to make it work, but if all else fails they try to let go. The negative side of this is they can turn to work to feel the void in their hearts can find difficulty finding a new mate.
Libra – Librans are people who want balance in their life. They see that a relationship is a social contract and that if it falls they get hurt and embarrassed. They want their partners to fall in love with them again if the other one is falling out of love. They have a good atmosphere around them and would turn the unfortunate breakup into the eyes of the public as something like “it was an opportunity for me to grow”. People born under the Scales want to find balance right away, so if they relationship does not get mended, they will move on and find another heart to love them.
Scorpio – They are people who swell with emotions. They love very deeply and hate much more deeply. They tend to plot against their exes when they get very hurt and mad. When they love too much their judgment can get clouded with too much anger and aggression. They can be manipulative and power seekers. They hate being dominated by their partners and always seek to be the master in the relationship. They want a meek and loving partner who is totally devoted to them.
Sagittarius – The Sagittarian sign gives the people born under this sign a fiery and sizzling spirit. They crave romance and lust. They are free spirits. Committing to a single relationship could be difficult for them. They may tend to find polygamy as something normal and acceptable. They want to have a high amount of energy in their relationships. If their mate falls short they can tend to want adventure and sometimes cheat. This tendency, can make them mask pain by just jumping into a new relationship once one is over.
Capricorn – Capricorns are hardworking individuals either in their careers or their love life. They will try hard to maintain balance in their work, finances and relationships. If a Capricorn’s partner tries to leave them, they will try to talk things out to attain peace. They want the family to be together. They hate the thought of divorce or breakups and think that everything can be worked out. They are quiet loyal. On the other hand if the relationship becomes poisonous and or the partner cheats, the Capricornian would build a fence to keep out the offending partner in an instant.
Aquarius – The people born under the Water-Bearer’s sign can be both devoted and manipulative at the same time. They can be loving and hate break-ups. On the other hand if they feel that the burden of having a commitment is hurting them, they will manipulate their partners into doing the split-up for them. They feel that being aggressive is a negative thing and that smooth conversations are best. If they also feel that there is a better place for them they may tend to wander to find out if it would be more beneficial.
Pisces – The fish are smooth, sleek and free. They want to be always with someone who fulfill their needs. They may float from relationship to relationship without committing themselves fully or not even knowing that they are already in a relationship. They tend to daydream and want many things which a single partner cannot fulfill. If ever they stick to one relationship they want to have all their dreams fulfilled otherwise they feel that there is something missing and can become depressed. Another thing that may happen if they choose monogamy is that they can focus their energies into their hobbies just to get their needs satisfied. Piscean people tend to struggle with deep relationships but find it easy to leave ones which are fleeting. If the relationship is a long one, they can feel crushed and down to the point of depression. The partner may need to vanish completely in order for the Fish to move on.
Astrology and Breakups
Breaking up is never easy. No matter how clean or messy it is, it will always leave a hole in our hearts. We all feel crushed, bruised and broken by an aching heart. Some of us move on with a tub of ice-cream, some with a bottle of Jack Daniels and some never do. We all go through a different process in order to heal our hearts. Looking into the stars can help us find some answers.
If you are struggling with getting over your ex or dealing with your breakup (or even want your ex back) why not try my other break up advice articles
Since the beginning of time the stars and the signs have helped us deal with love, life and relationships. You and I have different personalities, however, having a guide can help us to manage ourselves into finding happiness, closure and strength after a break up.
Find out more about the different astrology signs and how they are in love and relationships.
With Love, from The Love Queen